Fun, clubbish-type of song. That in itself is no great shakes.
But the song never fails to make me smile because it was THE song of the moment when i was in China, during the asean-china youth camp, where i met ZW
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Jason derulo
Not sure if you guys have heard of him, but he's the guy who sang "in my head".
Fun, clubbish-type of song. That in itself is great shakes.
But the song never fails to make me smile because it was THE song of the moment when i was in China, during the asean-china youth camp, where i met ZW
Saturday, April 09, 2011
I think i'm getting old...
It's been ages since i last visited a club.
With my busted ankle, limited stamina and alcohol-dulled senses, i'm actually blogging.
Hmm.. Think i'm over this whole clubbing thing.
Oh, and i'm getting old.
With my busted ankle, limited stamina and alcohol-dulled senses, i'm actually blogging.
Hmm.. Think i'm over this whole clubbing thing.
Oh, and i'm getting old.
Tuesday, April 05, 2011
Inward looking
I can't remember what sparked the conversation, but one balmy night after work, i started talking to this editor.
And somehow, the conversation drifted to moving overseas.
The editor then gave me this sage advice: "a relationship has to be very strong if a couple decides to uproot and move overseas."
"And it's important to have a core group of friends, otherwise, the relationship becomes inward looking, and can crumble."
That statement struck me, simply because ZW has expressed a desire to go overseas.
And really, in all likelihood, i would go with him. Japan, London... Wherever the winds blow us.
Since i have no concrete plans, it's highly likely that i'd not do anything for a while, trying to set up a home in a foreign land.
Would i be able to set up a strong support network too? Or would i become so overly dependent on ZW for human contact that it strangles him?
When we holidayed in Japan, i broke down at one point because i felt so isolated.
Deep into our vacation, ZW was the only person whom i could speak to, converse with, ask questions of. He was my intepreter, my only contact.
And when he chose not to talk to me, or do translation, i felt all alone and isolated.
So the idea of going away for a prolonged period of time, while exciting, is also very, very scary.
And somehow, the conversation drifted to moving overseas.
The editor then gave me this sage advice: "a relationship has to be very strong if a couple decides to uproot and move overseas."
"And it's important to have a core group of friends, otherwise, the relationship becomes inward looking, and can crumble."
That statement struck me, simply because ZW has expressed a desire to go overseas.
And really, in all likelihood, i would go with him. Japan, London... Wherever the winds blow us.
Since i have no concrete plans, it's highly likely that i'd not do anything for a while, trying to set up a home in a foreign land.
Would i be able to set up a strong support network too? Or would i become so overly dependent on ZW for human contact that it strangles him?
When we holidayed in Japan, i broke down at one point because i felt so isolated.
Deep into our vacation, ZW was the only person whom i could speak to, converse with, ask questions of. He was my intepreter, my only contact.
And when he chose not to talk to me, or do translation, i felt all alone and isolated.
So the idea of going away for a prolonged period of time, while exciting, is also very, very scary.
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